17 Effortless Ways To Be A Better Person Today Than You Were Yesterday

Do you ever do things that make you cringe at your own behaviour?

Or just slightly remorseful that you’ve become so lame and accepting of the status quo?

If you do, then give yourself a hearty pat on the back because you, at least, recognise that somewhere along the way things veered ever-so slightly off course.

The list that follows will quickly pull you back into to line and you’ll take immediate action to correct your course, even if just a little bit.

If you never question yourself then there only are two possible explanations.

The first is that you are the reincarnation of Gandhi. Or Buddha. Or Princess Diana.

The second is that you really need to read this f*cking list and take double-immediate action of several of the points.

Only then will your soul be saved.

17 Effortless Ways To Immediately Stop Being A Wanker

1. Leave Your Phone In Your Car For The First Two Hours After You Get Home

Be present and be a better Dad and husband for it.

Or if you’re not yet a Dad, spend the time reading, exercising or cooking.

2. Leave Your Phone In Your Pocket / Bag / Briefcase In The Lift

Like a creepy security blanket, the phone comes out when – shock, horror – we might be seen doing, wait for it, nothing.

Or standing idle for 45 seconds.

Don’t be a #LiftPhoneWanker

3. Leave Your Phone In A Different Room To Where You Sleep

But, wait, it’s my alarm clock?

Okay, try this: BY ANOTHER F*CKING ALARM CLOCK

I guarantee you’ll sleep better and longer without spooning your hone.

4. Leave Your Phone In The Office When You Go Out For Lunch / Coffee

You think that work call or task can’t wait 10 or 30 minutes?

What, are you The President??

What in f*ck’s name do you think it going to happen in your absence? They’re going to run out of paperclips in the office.\

5. Leave Your Phone At Home When You Go Out For Dinner

Nothing bad will come of this.

You think the chef might be offended that you’re not snapping the food?

No, he’ll think you’re alright and you know something about food. And respect.

6. Set Up A Direct Debit To A Charity

You will feel so virtuous doing this that you’ll gain at least 2 inches in height. Win : win.

Do this right now. We’ll wait.

GiveWell rates the charities that use your donations most effectively.

7. Perform A Random Act Of Kindness (and don’t video it or take a photo of it)

Do someone nice for someone – and here’s the kicker – do it to be nice. Not to post on social media.

A great example of this: when you come out of the supermarket with your bags bulging, stop and give some of your shopping to the homeless chap on the bench outside the supermarket.

Give him one of your yogurts, a few slices off the top of your loaf of bread, a tin of something or other.

Probably best not to give him a can of beer though.

[ Note: having to tell everyone about your kindness, actually tells them something that is the opposite to what you intended]

8. Don’t J-Walk (whilst holding a phone)

It’s statistically, technically and physically impossible to cross a road whilst looking at your phone and not be a complete bell-end.

Or Japanese.

You’re probably not Japanese. Don’t be a bell-end.

9. Meditate For 10 Minutes

You’ll feel calmer, more chilled.

Stepping off the hamster-wheel for just a little while is so empowering because you demonstrate to yourself that you can actually do it.

Sign up for 10 Minutes Of Meditation a day at Headspace. It’s free.

10. Send Someone Flowers

Your mum, your wife, your mistress…doesn’t matter.

But you know my views on, ahem, ‘multi-tasking’.

If you don’t, it’s this: running one Doris is virtually impossible; running two or more is a waste of time.

Never in a million years will it end happily.

[For clarity, I’m talking about running two women separately. When it comes to two broads at the same party, it’s a different matter entirely].

11. Help An Old Person With Their Shopping

Yeah, they’re fumbling around at the checkout in front of you.

Paying for their $37 shop in silver coins and being generally annoying whilst you silently fume behind them, waiting impatiently to buy a Powerade.

But then you see them shuffling out of the mall with their bags overflowing, looking through their purse for a bus-pass.

And you feel like a major c*nt.

So you sprint after them and catch them at the bus stop and ask them where they live and offer them a lift home.

And they tell you they’re fine.

You’re about to give up and say okay, no worries. But something tells you to fight for this one.

And she eventually relents and you drive her home (all the while secretly praying she doesn’t piss in your car because you just had it cleaned) and deliver the shopping up the steps to her front door.

And you drive home (with the windows open to clear the smell) feeling like the KING OF THE WORLD.

If you’ve never tried this, you should.

12. Give Someone An Orgasm (doesn’t count if it’s you)

Chances are they’ll repay you in kind.

Don’t be a 68-er [that’s where she gets you off but you owe her one].

14. Eat A Vegetarian Dinner

Unless you pay top whack for your meat, there’s a good chance it led an unhappy life and met an inhumane end.

It’s the Elephant In The Room that we all choose to ignore. Myself included.

But imagine if every meat-eater had one less meat-based meal per week?

Or, better still, if we all spent big on organic, well-sourced meat and eggs that had been subject to A-grade husbandry and slaughter.

And the animals had been well looked after and not kept in cages or pens.

That would be nice.

15. Look Skywards

It’s impossible to be depressed whilst looking upwards.

That’s what someone once said to me. If you’re angry or depressed, give it a try.

It actually seems to work.

16. Turn Negative Thoughts Towards Your Neighbours Into Positive Thoughts

This can be real hard. Especially when they haven’t taken the bins out in, like, 5 years.

But are they really worth your negative energy? Leave them to their own.

Besides, they have cats; their house stinks.

#BinKarmaBitches

17. Read Fiction

Do this for 10 minutes before bed or for 15 minutes any time and smugly know that you’re making yourself better and more intelligent.

Summary

These points are easy to implement. They don’t require equipment or travel. Or a great deal of money

What they do require is action.

The great thing is that being a MASSIVE ACTION TAKER is a habit that feeds itself. Once you start it just kind of perpetuates.

Nail these small steps first and you’ll be ready for anything.

SFD